Happy Valentine's Day

As children we enjoyed Valentine's Day parties at school. Sharing cute cards, which are now vintage, was the order of the day. There were times that I received conversation hearts candy from some special little friend. Nice to be noticed by someone of the opposite sex, even as a child. I always liked boys, but did not usually have a boy friend. The main thing about sharing Valentines at school was to be inclusive and give to all classmates. When it is done right no one gets left out.

I don't know if children exchange Valentines at school anymore. But I notice a lot of Valentines in the store for children to purchase. There are cute cards to buy, but I especially like the old fashioned ones of years past, or replicas. Homemade cards are a favorite of mine to give.

When we have that special someone in our life it is assumed that cards and/or gifts will be shared. I always appreciate cards and do not expect more. But I won't turn down the extras if they are added. I like chocolate the best. Flowers are nice, but never expected. Jewelry is not necessary for me. I do understand how one would enjoy that pretty addition to their attire though. I'm so easy to please. As I said, cards make me happy.

There may have been a time when I really would have liked some extra attention with more than a card. I remember being sad on our anniversary when I really wanted to go out to eat at a restaurant. In those days even fast food would have been a treat as that was not on our list of things to do. This was when we had young children and times were tough for me. But I have seen better days since then so don't dwell on those rough days, usually. And I do want more than fast food once in a while for a treat.

We always remember cards on those special days such as anniversaries, birthdays and Valentine's Day.